It should be that the church is a light a beacon of Gods blessings but this church has involved itself in a family situation and rather than helping you did your part to speak negatively about the only person who was helping in turn you have created a larger problem. You have failed to be kind or thoughtful in what you spoke. You have taken advantage of the situation What you don’t know is there were receipts and care every step of the way. God gives us free will but there are consequences in choosing to speak and improperly guide someone who is not well. In my opinion you have failed to guide in Gods image. Perhaps someone should investigate your church and how much harm you have created for others Do you have your receipts and records in order?