We had gone to this church for five years. While going to this church I found out my husband had cheated on me. I went straight to the pastors wife and the pastor for guidance. They instantly told me that they can't help me with this, and recommended to go elsewhere for help. This should of been my first red flag. We started going to another church and we were getting help. Low and behold the pastor's wife is trying to friend request my husband on social media. I kindly messaged her to ask why she had friend requested my husband, and her reply,'Jenn I'm not taking the bait. I don't do drama.' I am as confused as you. Great people..but I think this church is just a seeker friendly church:))